Self love doesn’t mean you have no flaws

Self love doesn’t mean you love everything about yourself. Its the realization and practice of understanding that like all beings, we are a collection of experiences that shape us into who we are and nobody’s existence is ever wrong.

Not one person in this world will ever reach a point in their life where they cannot grow anymore. Because of this, all the people you look up to and think about wanting to be, are all in the same boat. They all have flaws, things they dislike about themselves, but because you see them through your own perspective, you highlight the attributes you like.

Everyone else in the world is doing the same thing to you. They highlight your existence through the lense of their own perspective. For people who don’t like to party, a partier is going to see them as a ‘loner’ or a ‘weirdo’, but another person who doesn’t like partying will see them as ‘someone like me’ or ‘normal.’ At then end of the day, all these labels a subjective – biased through one’s own life view. Someone who doesn’t like to party cannot be summed by this one singular preference of theirs, so then why do we let our brains convince that one singular attribute of ourselves defines us?

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