It’s A Personal Connection Issue Not A Personal Reflection Issue

Sometimes people just aren’t meant to be together but that doesn’t have to mean that either person had something wrong with them.

I think often times people think that they are too needy or too attached. But I think what gets lost in translation is a mismatched level of desire. You aren’t too needy to go for what you want but you also can’t expect people to do things for you. You just need to find someone who wants to do for you what you want from them.

You’re not too much. You’re just not a match with that person. Sometimes it’s really a reflection of the connection between you and the other person and not a reflection of you.

TLDR: I watched Are You The One and got irritated with how many people started blaming themselves because other people weren’t interested in them, haha. But be you and soon you will find someone who likes you for you.

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