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Jan 31, 20222 min read

How Do You Feel When You Look At The Stars

I remember the stories people like to tell when they see shapes in the stars. I think about how our man-made lights sometimes drown out...

Jan 28, 20222 min read

‘Music On My Playlist’ + Book Playlists

Whenever someone asks me about what music I like, I always say that my only criteria is: it makes me feel something it is fun to sing I...

Jan 27, 20222 min read

I Finally Disarmed My Self-Destruct Button

I have this tendency to want to just cancel things if I don’t see a way for them to work and they aren’t necessary in my life. This often...

Jan 24, 20221 min read

It’s A Personal Connection Issue Not A Personal Reflection Issue

Sometimes people just aren’t meant to be together but that doesn’t have to mean that either person had something wrong with them. I think...

Jan 12, 20221 min read

Don’t Worry If People Don’t Remember Who You Were

I often worry about people in different phases of my life not knowing about my past self and thus losing my past self as I grow older....

Sep 28, 20211 min read

Don’t Be Sad For Me, Be Mad With Me

When we say we don’t like nice guys, we don’t mean we want assholes. We mean we need someone with substance that challenges us and the...

Sep 28, 20211 min read

Don’t Be Sad For Me, Be Mad With Me

When we say we don’t like nice guys, we don’t mean we want assholes. We mean we need someone with substance that challenges us and the...

Jul 15, 20211 min read

Nobody is better than me – I’m not better than anybody else

Nobody is better than you. You are not better than anybody else. This seems like a paradox to many people. This is where we are wrong....

Jul 15, 20211 min read

Nobody is better than me – I’m not better than anybody else

Nobody is better than you. You are not better than anybody else. This seems like a paradox to many people. This is where we are wrong....

May 13, 20212 min read

You Can Like Yourself Without Being Perfect – and You Should

Just recently, I met up with an old friend of mine. We had kept in touch online but hadn’t met in over six years. One of the topics of...

May 13, 20212 min read

You Can Like Yourself Without Being Perfect – and You Should

Just recently, I met up with an old friend of mine. We had kept in touch online but hadn’t met in over six years. One of the topics of...

Apr 23, 20212 min read

Confident People Have Insecurities

Confident people haven’t found some mystical secret of getting rid of insecurities. They just start pushing their insecurities aside. As...

Apr 23, 20212 min read

Confident People Have Insecurities

Confident people haven’t found some mystical secret of getting rid of insecurities. They just start pushing their insecurities aside. As...

Apr 18, 20212 min read

How To Not Take Things Personally

Every time something someone says or does starts to affect me, I think of the phrase “how to not take things personally” and I find that...

Apr 18, 20212 min read

How To Not Take Things Personally

Every time something someone says or does starts to affect me, I think of the phrase “how to not take things personally” and I find that...

Apr 4, 20212 min read

Why Do We Give Our Negative Thoughts More Credibility Than Our Positive Thoughts?

All the negative thoughts in my head seem to stick more than the positive ones. I can very easily brush past the good job you did well...

Apr 4, 20212 min read

Why Do We Give Our Negative Thoughts More Credibility Than Our Positive Thoughts?

All the negative thoughts in my head seem to stick more than the positive ones. I can very easily brush past the good job you did well...

Mar 20, 20212 min read

The Only Person That Can Bring Me Down Is Me And That’s Never In My Best Interest To Do So

At the end of the day, no action of another can harm me without my permission. I have lived several years acknowledging this, but not...

Mar 20, 20212 min read

The Only Person That Can Bring Me Down Is Me And That’s Never In My Best Interest To Do So

At the end of the day, no action of another can harm me without my permission. I have lived several years acknowledging this, but not...

Mar 6, 20213 min read

Confidence Is the Best Accessory

Confidence isn’t something you possess. It’s a decision. You decide to wear it in your life and no it’s not easy, but at the end of the...